I read the Opinion page of the
Houston Chronicle nearly every day. It is not a bad paper, as they go (I read a while back that it is delivered to the White House each morning). Occasionally, a poignant opinion makes its way through the murk and mire of the monotonous humdrum that normally populates such pages. Yesterday's column by
William Raspberry was one such piece (OK, I know that the link isn't to the Chronicle, but something about my subscription is messed up and I can't see the archives).
Raspberry makes the case that it is increasingly difficult for women, especially black women, to find an acceptable mate as they climb higher up the educational and vocational ladder. His conclusion is that since these unmarried women typically don't have children, that the fundamental fabric of our society is changing. Not to be disrespectful, but the fabric of our society has been changing for quite a while now. One might question whether it has EVER been entirely stable, and perhaps it should not be. Raspberry asks the question "where are the black men?". I think the more relevant question is "Why aren't these women already married?".
I believe that what we are seeing here is merely a symptom of a wider problem in our society: we no longer place a higher value on family than on education or career.